Understanding Emotional Intelligence To Live Out The Second Memo

Sep 20, 2026 • Pastor Ben Kingston

Pastor Ben Kingston continues the series looking into the memos of the disorganized.

THE SECOND MEMO TO THE DISORGANIZED IS, IF MY PRIVATE WORLD IS IN ORDER, IT WILL BE BECAUSE I MAKE A DAILY CHOICE TO MONITOR. IT’S STATE OF ORDERLINESS.

That is why we are going to look at this subject that we have addressed back in 2022 on emotional intelligence you and I will not live out this second memo of ordering our private world if we do not have emotional intelligence.

Results of emotional unintelligence

1. Uncontrolled anger

2. Uncontrolled response

3. Harder work environment

4. Inefficiency

5. Earned reputation

6. Strained relationships

7. Avoidance that leads to loneliness.

So how do we attain emotional intelligence? The process

1. Outcome is worth the input

2. Expect difficulty

3. Meet difficulty with determination